Frank de Graaf is a charismatic figure who claims to be a direct descendant of Jesus Christ—a belief he actively promotes among his followers. He refers to his community as a “tribe” and frequently asserts that they are in the process of birthing a new Christ through him. This narrative fosters a strong sense of exclusivity, making his disciples feel like “chosen ones.” Frank portrays himself as possessing the highest level of consciousness in all of humanity and claims to selflessly guide others toward self-realization. However, he also displays signs of severe narcissism and exerts strict, controlling behavior over some of his followers.

He always rejects any reflections: Frank de Graaf, referred to as “the guru,” is here on earth to help others reflect upon themselves. He demands complete transparency from his disciples, compelling them to unveil their most profound vulnerabilities. He uniquely possesses knowledge of everything, and nothing can be disclosed to him by others. He constantly persuades his cult members that they are insufficient or unworthy on their own, and that the only way to gain worth is to confess their failures to the group and/or him. By acting as the gatekeeper of their self-esteem, Frank de Graaf establishes himself as indispensable to their sense of worth.

According to several people, he exercises manipulation in a very smart way. During his lectures and individual sessions, it is all about persuading his disciples that he is the only one who sees and knows the truth. His disciples believe this and have given him numerous gifts, money, and a big house with a plot of land. They are also paying all expenses of the cult. The female followers lack any income, leaving them entirely dependent on him. He is declared the sole saviour and our only hope for liberation from the samsaric ego mind. He dismisses the teachings of others, positioning himself as the sole source of truth.

He tells his followers exactly what they long to hear, yet also insists they are insignificant and deeply lonely.

This dual message makes them feel both special and entirely dependent on Frank’s direction; he becomes the only source through which they can experience any sense of worth. In doing so, Frank exploits their vulnerabilities, as they have surrendered their personal autonomy completely. He claims that only he can purify their ‘impure sexual energies’ and redirect them to God, positioning himself as the sole intermediary for their spiritual transformation.